Thirty-One! (And Five Things I Learned at 30)

It’s my birthday!! Sharing 5 Lessons I learned at 30 and how I’m celebrating 31!

Birthday Dress: Lilly Pulitzer || Clutch: Lilly Pulitzer c/o Pink Colony || Heels: Steve Madden || Apple Watch

Happy Monday friends! I’m headed into this week with SO much cheer because yesterday I celebrated my 31st birthday!! It’s hard for me to believe I’m officially in my 30s- like really in them now- and I couldn’t have loved my first year in them more! Everyone has told me that their 30’s were their favorite decade- and it’s already shaping up to be so very true. Once you fit 30, it’s like you really know yourself, who you are, what you want… and that’s powerful stuff friends! I thought it would be fun today to share 5 things I’ve learned in my 30’s (there’s been so many lessons but I whittled them down to my top five!) 🙂

ONE: Don’t be afraid to expand your tribe.

If y’all have been around here awhile then you know that 100% my girlfriends mean the world to me! I’ve been crazy lucky to be surrounded by so many wonderful women who lift me up & inspire me every day. And in the last year, my tribe has grown! I’ve made some wonderful new friends who have filled up my life with JOY! From Bachelor Monday nights, so happy hours, these ladies have turned my sweet beach town into  a hometown for me and I’m so thankful! So lesson one is this: don’t be afraid to expand your tribe! Take a chance on making new friends, open yourself up to new people- your life will be richer for it.

TWO: It’s never too late to get your finances in order.

I’ve shared bits & pieces here and there about beginning my journey with Financial Peace University. I’m working on a big post about my “why” and what I’ve learned through the program, but what it’s shown me is that it’s never too late to get your finances in order! I do so wish I had started the journey to financial freedom earlier, but I am glad I am on the road now!

THREE: Say YES to big adventures!

I have a case of wanderlust like nobody’s business, and traveling has brought me some of my biggest joys in the past year. Getting out of your comfort zone, trying something new, challenging yourself- these are all wonderful results of saying “yes” to adventure and traveling! I have my first international trip coming up this year and I couldn’t be more excited- and so ready for learning new things 🙂 So my advices- always say “YES” to adventure!

FOUR: Find your faith and dig deep in it.

Y’all know how much I love the Lord, but in the past year I feel like I’ve really hit my “groove” with my faith. It was a goal of mine to read through the Bible in a year (which I did last year) and it set the tone for me to dig deep, learn more about the Lord and his love for me, and really believe in his great plan for my life. I’ve been through hills &  valleys at 30, but each pit and peak was made so much richer (& more bearable) because I could lean on the Lord and my faith to get through it. (Sidenote: If you ever want to chat about this let me know! I’d love to encourage you!)

FIVE: The world needs your special brand of YOU!

I think it’s no secret that each and every one of us is SO different from each other. In this day of social media it’s far to easy to get caught up in trying to be just like each other- but that doesn’t do anyone any good. We were each created so uniquely, and I’ve learned that the world (& people) need MY unique brand of me 🙂 And I need each of my friend’s unique personalities too! We don’t grow & learn by all being the same- we need each other’s differences to blossom. So don’t try to be like your favorite IG account- embrace the wonderful traits that make YOU unique and give that to the world! Trust me, we need it! 🙂

Birthday Dress: Lilly Pulitzer || Clutch: Lilly Pulitzer c/o Pink Colony || Heels: Steve Madden || Apple Watch

Thank you so much for taking the time so stop by today! This blog is one of my sweetest joys and I love sharing celebrations & milestones with y’all! I’m so excited to see what 31 has to offer and can’t wait to see what lessons this year will bring. What have you learned in the last year? Love y’all BIG!



    • girlmeetsbow
      March 11, 2019 / 10:43 pm

      Thank you so much! Thankful for YOU!

  1. March 11, 2019 / 11:07 am

    Love this! (And happy birthday!!) I just made a very similar post – it’s so fun to reflect and realize that even in 1 year you can learn and grow so much! Two and Four were also things that I learned in the last year, too – I also just turned 31! Let’s enjoy really being IN our 30’s! 🙂

    • girlmeetsbow
      March 13, 2019 / 9:27 am

      Happy Birthday to you as well then!! The 30’s are by far my favorite- I’m learning and growing so much!

    • girlmeetsbow
      March 13, 2019 / 9:27 am

      thank you Elise!!

  2. Robin
    March 11, 2019 / 2:48 pm

    This is a such a cute post and LOVE all five lessons you shared! I will be turning 30 next year and I find myself currently working on all five you shared! Wishing a wonderful year!

    • girlmeetsbow
      March 13, 2019 / 9:25 am

      You are going to LOVE being 30!! It truly is the best decade!!

  3. March 11, 2019 / 3:28 pm

    These are all such great points! Happy Birthday and love your dress!!


  4. March 11, 2019 / 5:56 pm

    Happy birthday gorgeous girl! I hope it’s the best year yet!

    • girlmeetsbow
      March 13, 2019 / 9:25 am

      Thank you Felicity!

  5. March 11, 2019 / 7:22 pm

    Happy Birthday! I love saying YES to adventure!!

    – Madison

    • girlmeetsbow
      March 13, 2019 / 9:25 am

      Thank you so much Shauna!!

  6. March 11, 2019 / 10:18 pm


    I love this dress on you – pink is your color and I need to get to that hotel in the background ASAP.

    I love all your lessons, but especially love the one about saying yes to new adventures – I find I get the most out of life when I push my comfort zone, even if it’s scary at the onset.

    xx katie // a touch of teal

  7. March 12, 2019 / 12:05 am

    Your dress is super stunning and you look so cute. I love all of your tips.

    • girlmeetsbow
      March 12, 2019 / 5:41 am

      Thank you so much!

  8. Liz
    March 12, 2019 / 1:39 am

    Oh my gosh, could be any cuter?! The dress, location, you…perfect! And loved your words – so much truth to all of this! Happy, happy birthday 🙂

    • girlmeetsbow
      March 13, 2019 / 5:21 am

      Thank you so very much Lizzie!

  9. March 12, 2019 / 9:23 am

    Happy Belated Birthday girl! I just turned 30 last september.

    • girlmeetsbow
      March 13, 2019 / 5:22 am

      Woo hoo! Welcome to the 30 club!

  10. Em
    March 12, 2019 / 1:05 pm

    Hope you had a great birthday! love your five lessons!

  11. Laura
    March 12, 2019 / 1:58 pm

    Happy birthday! Hope you had the best day! I loved reading this and these pictures are STUNNING!

    • girlmeetsbow
      March 13, 2019 / 5:22 am

      Thank you so much!

  12. Laura Adney
    March 12, 2019 / 4:20 pm

    I am obsessed with all the pink! You look so darling girly, love this dress

  13. March 13, 2019 / 10:09 pm

    Happy birthday, beautiful friend! I love your lesson about faith. I have been digging deeper into my faith over the past year and I can see now why it is always a good idea. I hope you had a great 31st 🙂

    -xo, Azanique |

    • girlmeetsbow
      March 14, 2019 / 10:00 am

      I think faith is the most important thing in my life! So glad you’ve been digging deep too!

  14. March 15, 2019 / 4:17 am

    What a fun read! And yes, always say yes to big adventures! Also, you pink dress is the cutest.
    Jessica |

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